Today, I’ve been reflecting on how much the wedding industry has changed, especially in the last few years. Being a wedding planner for as long as I have, you get used to trends coming and going, but what I’m seeing now feels different. It's not just about aesthetic changes or what's fashionable at the moment. Couples are thinking more deeply about the meaning behind their weddings, and it’s inspiring to watch these shifts unfold.
Take sustainability, for example. A few years ago, it might’ve been a bonus if a couple included eco-friendly elements, but now, it’s becoming a core part of how they plan. I had a couple recently who were adamant that their wedding leave as small a carbon footprint as possible. We sourced local flowers from a nearby farm, rented vintage furniture, and even used eco-friendly confetti made from dried flower petals. I love that couples are becoming more conscious of their impact and choosing to align their weddings with their values. It makes the planning process feel purposeful—like we’re creating something that not only celebrates their love but honors the world around them.
Another trend that I’ve really fallen in love with is the rise of micro-weddings. The pandemic may have kickstarted this, but it’s so much more than a necessity at this point. Micro-weddings feel intimate, personal, and incredibly special. There’s something magical about a smaller guest list—it allows couples to focus on the people who truly matter most. I remember a wedding I planned just a few months ago where only 15 guests were in attendance. It was held in the couple’s favorite bookstore, which we transformed into a cozy, romantic space with candles, fairy lights, and books scattered everywhere. After the ceremony, we hosted a private dinner with handwritten menus and personalized keepsakes for each guest. It felt like the wedding was a true reflection of the couple’s personality and story, and that’s what made it unforgettable.
Personalization is another area where weddings are evolving. It’s so exciting to work with couples who are eager to make their wedding uniquely theirs. No two weddings feel the same anymore, and I absolutely love that. I’ve worked with couples who’ve incorporated everything from their love of travel into their decor to custom cocktail menus inspired by their favorite cities. The possibilities seem endless. Just recently, I helped a couple integrate elements from both their cultural backgrounds into the ceremony and reception. They blended traditional customs with modern touches, and the result was not only beautiful but deeply meaningful to them and their families.
What’s fascinating is that weddings are no longer about sticking to a formula or adhering to a set list of expectations. They’re about storytelling. Whether it's through the venue choice, the food, the decor, or the guest experience, couples are finding new ways to make their big day an authentic reflection of who they are. It’s such an honor to be part of that process.
As I wrap up this entry, I’m struck by how fortunate I am to witness love being celebrated in so many unique and heartfelt ways. Every couple brings something new to the table, and it keeps me on my toes creatively. I’m looking forward to what the next wedding season will bring, but for now, I’m just grateful to be part of this beautiful, ever-changing industry.
-Sejal