Hey Brides—Don't Forget to Take Care of YOU During Wedding Planning!
Hey there! I know planning a wedding can feel like a full-time job (on top of your actual full-time job and, well, life). Between all the decisions, family input, and Pinterest rabbit holes, it's easy to get lost in the chaos. I’ve seen it happen way too many times, which is why I’m here to remind you of something super important: take care of YOU. Here’s how you can keep your sanity and actually enjoy this journey.
1. Boundaries, Babe!
Your aunt’s got opinions. Your BFF has ideas. Suddenly, everyone is a wedding expert. Listen, it’s totally okay to say, “Thanks, but I’ve got this.” Politely set boundaries when the advice gets overwhelming. No one should be texting you about centerpiece colors at 10 p.m. (Yep, it happens.) Give yourself permission to mute the noise when you need to.
2. Block Out "No Wedding Talk" Time
If you’re eating dinner and scrolling through seating charts, we need to talk. Set specific days or hours to handle wedding stuff, and then—this is key—step away. Binge your favorite show, hang out with friends, or just chill. You’re not a wedding robot. You deserve some wedding-free breathing room!
3. Your Self-Care Isn’t Optional
Look, I know spa days and bubble baths sound cliché, but hear me out—whatever helps you reset, do that. Morning walks, hitting the gym, zoning out with music—whatever brings you peace, schedule it like you would your dress fitting. Even 10 minutes to yourself can change your whole vibe.
4. Don’t Forget Why You’re Doing This
At the end of the day, this is about you and your person celebrating your love. Make time for date nights where you don’t talk about table linens. Reconnect with each other—laugh, eat tacos, dance in the kitchen—whatever fills your cup. It keeps things real when planning feels like it’s taking over your life.
One Last Thing...
You deserve to enjoy this season, not just survive it. Take a breath, set those boundaries, sneak in that self-care, and hold on to the joy. Your wedding is a day, but your happiness? That’s the real forever.
You got this. And I’ve got you.